A Reminder from the Universe

Happiness Is A Choice

I used to share my thoughts and feelings a lot more. But as my jewelry brand has grown significantly over the past two years, I began to wonder—do my words still matter? Is there still a need for me to express myself when the jewelry and our campaigns seem to speak for themselves?

But today, something happened that reminded me why I started sharing in the first place.

Yesterday, I had a hard day.

The kind that hits you deep, where emotions build up until they can no longer be contained. In the middle of a New York City sidewalk, I broke down in tears. My boyfriend held me as the world rushed around us, but for that moment, everything disappeared in his embrace. It was a safe space to release, to let go.

Devin took me to watch the sunset at Bar Blondeau at the Wythe Hotel in Brooklyn Tuesday, March 18.

This morning, I woke up with a headache, feeling drained. On the way to the airport, I got carsick. The airport experience was just as rough. So I stepped into a bathroom stall, sat down, and prayed.

I prayed for guidance, strength, courage, and the ability to transform my energy. I took deep breaths, sent love to those who had hurt me, and reminded myself of the power I have to choose my energy. I pulled out a mirror, looked into my eyes, and made a choice: Today, I choose love. I choose joy. I choose peace.

I stepped out of that stall, washed my face, put on my lipstick, and walked to my gate. I unzip my black leather work backpack and pull out my journal to make notes on my calendar and like a scene out of a movie, I received a subtle response from the universe. I opened my journal and saw today’s date—March 20, the International Day of Happiness.

I was reminded of something profound: empathy is our superpower.

I had silenced myself because I believed my words were no longer as influential or special as the jewelry designs, the ad campaigns, and the photography I have been pouring myself into. But I forgot that what makes our jewelry meaningful is the intention, the stories, and the emotions behind it. Our jewelry, our community and our company isn’t just about adornment—it’s about connection.

So today, I want to remind you:

• Your voice matters.

• Your story is worth telling.

• Happiness is often a choice, and even in difficult moments, we have the power to transform our energy.

I invite you to reflect on your own journey. What moments have reminded you of your strength? What stories do you carry in your heart?

Happiness isn’t always easy and may not even really be the goal. It is remembering that in every moment, we have the choice to seek light, love, and growth.

Happy International Day of Happiness.

Love,

Cristy

About The Author

Cristy Cali is a writer, award-winning entrepreneur, and globally recognized jewelry designer with roots in Guatemala and New Orleans. Cristy’s writing infuses positivity and authenticity into her candid lessons on personal growth & entrepreneurial success in building a 7-figure jewelry brand.

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